Book Report: Positive Intelligence

positive intelligenceI heard Shirzad Chamine speak earlier this year and was really taken with his message. That message is detailed in Positive Intelligence: Why Only 20% of Teams and Individuals Achieve Their True Potential.

Chamine has developed the concept of Positive Intelligence (PQ) which measures the percentage of time that your mind is serving you vs. the time it is sabotaging you. As someone who really values happiness and peace of mind, I love the idea of being able to quantify how much time I spend in that positive frame of mind, rather than letting my “monkey mind” take over and dwell on negative or anxious thoughts. But even better is the promise of being able to learn to quiet that monkey mind and strengthen what Chamine calls the Sage.

One of the Sage’s powers is to help you choose between alternatives based on an internal compass. To activate that power, Chamine suggests you imagine yourself at the end of your life, looking back on the choices you are facing. Then ask yourself, from that place, looking back, what do you wish you had chosen? What values do you wish you had exemplified? I think this is a great way to gain perspective, and to “go to the balcony” as one of my colleagues puts it.

I’m doing a 30 day challenge to strengthen my PQ – I’ll report back in early February to let you know how I made out!

For more information on Positive Intelligence, visit  positiveintelligence.com. They have assessments to measure your PQ score, tools to strengthen your PQ, and a lot of other resources.

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Dispatches from the Women’s Networking Circuit: Women Moving Millions

Jacki Zehner, the Chief Engagement Officer & President of Women Moving Millions, gave an inspiring talk at the Boston Club earlier this year. She believes that at that heart of gender inequality is a dominant belief in a “properly working meritocracy” but that the reality is that the current system heavily favors those who fit a particular mold. She talked about the slow pace of change to date, and why she thinks that today we are on the brink of major change:

  1. There is more and more research to support the importance and the value of gender equity
  2. Men are starting to take up the cause, as exemplified by the Warren Buffet interview in Fortune Magazine. This will help end the framing that puts women’s gains at the expense of men.
  3. We now have an ability to share information, mobilize and connect that we never had before because of technology. This new technology is democratizing power.
  4. People are increasingly willing to put all their financial resources behind creating a more just, sustainable and socially responsible world

Jacki stressed that we live in a world where money is power, so we must use our time, treasure and talent to support organizations that work on behalf of women and girls, and to invest with a gender lens. What we buy and where we buy it are some of the most important decisions we make every day, so we need to do it intentionally and thoughtfully. For example, she suggested that we shouldn’t buy products from companies that don’t have women on their corporate boards.

Wish you had been at the event? Here’s a TedX talk that Jacki gave, which has a similar theme.

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Dispatches from the Women’s Networking Circuit: Temporal Flexibility

Spela Trefalt and Emily Heaphy spoke about “temporal flexibility” or how working people can have some control over their time, so they can manage the many demands at work and at home. Both presenters are wives, mothers, and full-time academics, so they live this every day.

They talked with a group of consultants about work/life balance, and discovered that what they really want is the ability to adjust their schedules to accommodate their needs and interests outside of work. That could look like compressed work weeks, shifted work hours, or even ad hoc accommodations. Part time work wouldn’t be considered temporal flexibility.

Temporal flexibility (TF) is desirable, but it also carries negative consequences. Raising issues related to TF is risky both in terms of relationship and reputation. The expectation is that professionals will always be available, that they will prioritize work over everything else, so talking about TF goes against that expectation.

Research suggests that there are some factors that make it easier to negotiate for TF, and that help prevent people from experiencing negative consequences of using it:

  • If the person is seen as taking initiative in general
  • If the manager perceives that the person is using TF in order to be more productive, rather than for personal (work/life management) reasons
  • If the person is paired with a powerful person when they originally come into the organization, so they build social capital with powerful people
  • If the person has a trusting relationship with their manager

Trefalt and Heaphy are interested in the question of how people can position themselves to be successful in negotiating for TF. Their model isn’t finalized, but my takeaways were as follows:

  • If a supervisor has trust in their subordinates, the supervisor is more likely to take advantage of TF because they trust that the work will be done properly in their absence
  • If a supervisor is good at project management, their subordinates are more likely to be able to take advantage of TF. Good project management means the supervisor is able to deliver a good product, manage the client expectations, and create a work environment with manageable stress levels, which includes creating a safe environment for people to share their work/life priorities.
  • On the flip side, if the subordinate doesn’t work for someone who can manage effectively, it is almost impossible to create TF.

This talk was part of the Simmons Center For Gender in Organizations Distinguished Speaker Series.

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